Showing posts with label Reading. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Reading. Show all posts

Thursday, December 31, 2015

2015 Reading List

Did I hit my goal of 40 books read for the year? No, no I did not.
  • Generation Kill by Evan Wright
  • Gold Boy, Emerald Girl: Stories by Yiyun Li
  • Three Junes by Julia Glass
  • Yes Please by Amy Poehler
  • Unbroken: A World War II Story of  Survival, Resilience, and Redemption by Laura Hillenbrand
  • Look Again by Lisa Scottoline
  • Kisses from Katie: A Story of Relentless Love and Redemption by Katie J. Davis 
  • An Invisible Thread: The True Story of an 11-Year-Old Panhandler, a Busy Sales Executive, and an Unlikely Meeting with Destiny by Alex Tresniowski and Laura Schroff
  • The Weight of Silence India by Heather Gudenkauf
  • Dead Aid: Why Aid Is Not Working and How There Is a Better Way for Africa by Dambisa Moyo
  • Hard Choices by Hillary Rodham Clinton
  • Jam on the Vine by LaShonda Katrice Barnett 
  • Blame by Michelle Huneven
  • The Girl on the Train by Paula Hawkins
  • The End of Overeating: Taking Control of the Insatiable American Appetite by David A. Kessler
  • It's What I Do: A Photographer's Life of Love and War by Lynsey Addario
  • When Helping Hurts: How to Alleviate Poverty Without Hurting the Poor... and Yourself  by Steve Corbett
  • Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout
  • However Long the Night: Molly Melching's Journey to Help Millions of African Women and Girls Triumph by Aimee Molloy
  • Eye on the Struggle: Ethel Payne, the First Lady of the Black Press by James McGrath Morris 
  • Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic by Alison Bechdel
  • Cutting for Stone by Abraham Verghese
  • Modern Romance by Aziz Ansari
  • Rising Strong by Brene Brown
  • Fast Girl: A Life Spent Running from Madness by Suzy Favor Hamilton
  • Bebe Day by Day: 100 Keys to French Parenting by Pamela Druckerman
  • Dime by E. R. Frank
  • The Art of Fielding by Chad Harbach
  • The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed by Jessica Lahey
  • Where the Red Fern Grows by Wilson Rawls
  • All the Bright Places by Jennifer Niven
"At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us." Dr. Albert Schweizer (The Gift of Failure)

Sunday, February 8, 2015

Jamaica: Day 2

The second day was a slow one, after a long day of travel, I think we all needed it. I started the morning with freshly brewed coffee and a short walk on the beach. As our wonderful cooks prepared breakfast, I was able to read in an Adirondack chair overlooking the ocean. I'm still marveling in Jamaica's beauty. The colors and foliage are so pleasing on the eyes.
Lyric: Home for the Week
A breakfast of over easy eggs, toast, fruit, fried bacon, and fresh squeezed orange juice was served, and the meal in its entirety was delicious. I'm not hard to please at breakfast. And following breakfast, we got our lounge on in chairs by the pool, the soundtrack of the ocean playing in the background. I nearly wrapped up Amy Poehler's Yes Please as the day passed before me. An afternoon rain rolled in and we took the time to munch on lunch and play cards. Afterwards we strolled through the town, winding up at Jake's for fancy drinks. My piƱa colada--topped with a cherry--was heavenly. Figuring I had started, I spent the rest of the afternoon sipping M.R.B.'s sangria and anticipating our lobster dinner. The meal did not disappoint.
This is sort of a dream vacation, in that I'm generously being treated to a trip I would have otherwise overlooked. It's dreamy in that I'm outside from the moment I wake until I call it a day, living for good food and sunsets. I've been rising shortly before 7:00 am and find myself heading to bed some thirteen hours later, happy and at ease.  

Wednesday, January 14, 2015

New Year, New Plans

I have slacked entirely on the blog front, so much so that I have a list of blog posts I would like to write. I also have a folder of pictures waiting to be uploaded. And some scattered notes that will bring me way back to when it was Thanksgiving 2014, which I have essentially otherwise forgotten.

Before I close the the previous year, I thought I would post my plans for the upcoming year in a series of groups: first, physical, personal, reading, spiritual, travel and couple; then yearly. Last year, I also made monthly goals. When I did not forget about these goals, I truly enjoyed the process; some of my monthly goals even became habits after the 30-day repetition! I did not have an organic list of goals I wanted to tackle, so I'm opting to omit them this year. I might have something I want to tackle when March or July roll around, and I will focus on that challenge then.

So without further ado, here's to 2015 and all that could be!

Personal
  • Continue cooking. LOTS. The measurable task: Make one new recipe each week. This is the method I used last year, and it seemed to be practical for life as it was then and is currently. I'm ahead of schedule as the date reads now. This year I've made: a heavenly, wonderful corn chowder paired with a decent corn bread; a huge batch of minestrone to freeze for winter lunches; a meaty, porky chili; and two pasta sauces--vodka sauce and a creamy leek and pancetta topping.  
  • As an added bonus, I want to expand my palate, so I'm going to try to add a unique ingredient to the shopping cart weekly. In 2015, I've tried a prickly pear and made two meals with leeks.
Physical
  • Run 50 miler - MAYBE. I ran a marathon, and have another 15 months before I can run the Boston Marathon. I need to stay in shape in between, right? My fans have not exactly approved said goal. I’m apt to run this thing anyway. This is the race I have my eye on, pending the brutality of winter 2015. Today, I learned (or recalled? ) running in snow is fun and peaceful and pretty (and, yes, cold).
  • Abs, abs, abs! And more strength. In an ideal world, this would entail 30 minutes of core per week and an hour of strength training a week. I shall try.
Reading
  • Read 40 books. This is an ambitious goal for me! I read a lot, again for me, in 2014 and I’d like to keep the trend alive.
  • Read at least two 500+ page books. I'm one-third the way through Hard Choices by Hillary Clinton. And Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand is on the docket. I’m taking recommendations though. 
Spiritual
  • More days of solitude. I'll aim for a day of solitude per month. This is going to be easy to knock out in the beginning of the year. Boyfriend will be out of town for two weeks, and I have ample time off work in the first two months of the year.
Travel
  • Visit two new states. The line up is set for Connecticut and Delaware. I already have my ticket to CT booked, and DE is a jump, hop, skip from my location in the mid-Atlantic. This is part of a greater goal to reach all 50 states before I’m 50. Though I’m way ahead of schedule, I was unable to hit a new state last year; I’m doubling up this year! 
  • Travel internationally. I'm more than ready to leave the United States for vacation. Last year, I renewed my passport to do so. Thanks to Boyfriend’s generous parents, we’re booked for a B Family vacation in less than a month. I’ll knock this one out early. Though I wouldn't be disappointed with late in the year plans (or plans at all) for another adventure abroad.
Couple – 15 plans for 2015 + one bonus plan for a truly thrilling year.

Together, Boyfriend and I made a list of 15 things we'd like to accomplish this year. We threw in a bonus ideas to keep life interesting. 
  1. Spend a weekend in Richmond, Virginia. My youngest brother has completed three of eight college semesters in Richmond and we have yet to visit. I'm a bad sister, I know. The eating, the surrounding hiking, the college basketball, and the music scene are all supposed to be incredible. I'm not sure what we're waiting on. I'm have my eye on the Richmond Half Marathon in November; this trip is looking as though it might happen then.
  2. Go the the Green Bay Packers/Kansas City Chiefs game in Green Bay, Wisconsin. Boyfriend claims the Packers. I love the Chiefs. The two will meet in 2015. And as soon as the schedule is released, we'll likely know if we'll be there to see.
  3. Pirates Stadium – I'm on a baseball stadium mission, and with Pittsburgh a short four hours away, and the Atlanta Braves visiting on a 2015 weekend, we'll be making my way to PNC Park this year. 
  4. Mets Stadium – I have been to Citi field. Boyfriend has not. He'd like to do this one together. And if we can see the Braves, I'm in. (This is a bonus goal.)
  5. Yankee Stadium – Boyfriend has been to Yankee Stadium. I have not. I'd like to do this one together. And he's in, if the Boston Red Sox are in town. 
  6. Delaware Overnight – As mentioned, I (nor Boyfriend) have not explored our nation's first state. 
  7. Book of Mormon; Once – We like musicals. And both these are coming to the Kennedy Center in 2015. Tickets are to go on sale soon, and we have our alarms set; these shows will not be missed. 
  8. One Restaurant/Month – Food is good. The end. 
  9. One Book Club Book/Month – We have our first three books of the year set: Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand, Yes Please by Amy Poehler, and Boys on the Boat: Nine Americans and Their Epic Quest for Gold at the 1936 Berlin Olympics by Daniel James Brown. 
  10. Pentagon and Air Force Memorials – Starting in March these memorials will be in our backyard, and we'll have no excuse not to visit. 
  11. Participate in the Spring and Fall Book Sales – This is our favorite volunteer opportunity. We didn't get to participate in the Fall, so we're looking forward to being on the schedule in the Spring. 
  12. Overnight Kayaking – Why not?  
  13. Backpacking Trip – For the great outdoors, our home away from home. 
  14. Hike 120 Miles – I opted for closer to 1,200 because #hardcore, but Boyfriend equated that to hiking half the Appalachian Trail while maintaining full time jobs and marathon training. I'm still unsatisfied with the number we agreed on but compromise; I'm learning. 
  15. Chincoteague Pony Swim – On Wednesday, July 29, 2015, Saltwater Cowboys will swim ponies across the Assateague Channel from Assateague Island to Chincoteague Island. This year is the 90th year for the annual swim made famous by Marguerite Henry's "Misty of Chincoteague. This is where you'll find us on that Wednesday in late July. 
  16. Dog – Maybe? Bonus, big bonus. 
With 11 months remaining, I'm confident I have lots of doing and discovering ahead of me. 

Wednesday, December 31, 2014

2014 Book List

I met my goal this year. I managed to finish (more than) 30 books in 365 days and enjoy almost all of them. May 2015 be as promising.
  • The Tender Bar: A Memoir by J.R. Moehringer
  • The Cuckcoo's Calling by Robert Galbraith
  • The World's Strongest Librarian: A Memoir of Tourette's, Faith, Strength, and the Power of Family by Josh Hanagarne
  • My Story by Elizabeth Smart
  • Room by Emma Donoghue
  • The Kitchen House by Kathleen Grissom
  • A House in the Sky: A Memoir by Amanda Lindhout and Sarah Corbett
  • Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom
  • Divergent by Veronica Roth
  • Slim for Life: My Insider Simple, Fast, and Lasting Weight Loss by Jillian Michaels
  • The Antelope in the Living Room: The Story of Two People Sharing One Life by Melanie Shankle
  • I am Malala by Malala Yousafzai
  • And the Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini‎
  • Born to Run by Christopher McDougall
  • Twelve Years a Slave by Solomon Northup
  • Super Sad True Love Story by Gary Shteyngart
  • The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
  • Me Before You by Jojo Moyes
  • Sarah's Key by Tatiana de Rosnay
  • The Husband's Secret by Liane Moriarty
  • Water for Elephants by Sara Gruen 
  • The Invisible Mountain by Carolina De Robertis 
  • The Dog Lived (and So Will I) by Teresa Rhyne 
  • Fragile by Lisa Unger
  • Easily Amused by Karen McQuestion 
  • Matilda by Ronald Dahl
  • A Fine Balance by Rohinton Mistry 
  • Lean In: Women, Work, and the Will to Lead by Sheryl Sandberg
  • The Invention of Wings by Sue Monk Kidd 
  • The Weight of Silence by Heather Gudenkauf
  • What I Know For Sure by Oprah Winfrey
  • Blue Christmas by Mary Kay Andrews
  • Rare Bird by Anna Whiston-Donaldson
"Every book is a miracle. Every book represents a moment when someone sat quietly--and that quiet is part of the miracle, make no mistake--and tired to tell the rest of us a story." J.R. Moehringer (The Tender Bar)

Monday, September 15, 2014

Another Non-Traditional Wedding

I spent a lot, lot, lot of time in the car this weekend. And every minute, including the many, many, many minutes patiently sitting idle on I-81 N outside of Harrisonburg, Virginia, home to James Madison University, for those unfamiliar with this sector of interstate. Boyfriend and I departed at 4:15 am on Friday morning, southbound for the Five Star Lodge and Stables in Morganton, Georgia. (I highly, highly, highly recommend you click the hyperlink and browse the property, specifically the images, as I did not do a great job of photo-documenting the incredible property. There was not a single detail of the lodge, pavilion, or stable overlooked.) We arrived shortly before 2:00 pm, after a few bathroom and gas stops and our 'road trip ritual' pause at Dunkin' Donuts.
This was a small wedding--less than 60 guests--and each invitee spent the duration of the weekend together. On the first afternoon, as guest trickled in, we toured the lodge and property and played basketball, tennis, and bags. I'm the worst at all the aforementioned sports, hence the reason I run. As I tossed the occasional bean bag, I talked endlessly with M.E.K. It was then time to clean-up for dinner; despite being at the base of the Blue Ridge Mountains, it was H-O-T in GA.
The rehearsal dinner was a heavenly pile of barbeque. And Joe's BBQ did a fabulous job, especially considering he was catering to a Kansas-based crowd, the true land of all things bbq. I called it a night around 11:00 pm. This is way, way, way past my bedtime, even when I'm not up at 4:00 am.
Almost immediately after arriving, it was clear there was virtually no where to run (and the hotel treadmill was not anything I'd risk running on)... so I opted to give myself the long weekend off, providing ample free time--to sleep(!!!)--without the usual mandatory weekend long run. I got up at the leisurely time of 8:30 am; I cannot remember the last time I slept in that late. I gobbled up the continental breakfast. And eventually made my way to the lodge for wedding day festivities. The day turned out to be busier than anticipated for the bride and groom (and those more involved). Since our help wasn't needed, we passed the time visiting the stables, reading in rocking chairs, and watching some college football on one of the many televisions. This was an easy Saturday.
Boyfriend and I made a quick detour to a local waterfall when I could no longer sit idle, just before it was time to wash up for the evening's celebration.
From the venue to the food to the band to the weather, the evening was perfect. The bride's friend did a fabulous job officiating the wedding. The ceremony was meaningful in absolutely every way. The cocktail hour and dinner flew by, both the Moscow Mules and food were divine. The whole affair--rehearsal dinner, ceremony, reception--was SO simple, without compensating a single detail. This wedding "ranks" rather highly in the tally I don't actually keep; I could gush on and on. As a believer in intentional relationships, I will end with the best part of the weekend, for me: time with both the bride and groom. I've mentioned H.M.O., now H.M.P., and A.B.P. recently moved from Washington, D.C. to Nashville, Tennessee; both Boyfriend and I miss them terribly. I'm glad we were able to see and spend this meaningful time with them.
 To the happy couple, cheers!

Monday, August 4, 2014

Thinking Out Loud

There are so many unrelated thoughts floating through my head right now. Let's assume you care.
  • Dan Uggla played, as a professional baseball player, for the San Francisco Giants. He went 0-8 with three errors. Dan, Dan, Dan is not your—San Francisco or otherwise—man. Poor Uggla. We—we, the Atlanta Braves, still owe him upwards of 20 million dollars. So while he may not be doing good on the field work, he’s doing alright. (In other words, I would trade shoes paychecks with him.) Please note, I am absolutely not on the bandwagon rooting for Uggla to fail; I hope he finds success again at some future point.
  • Boyfriend went for a run (and then another run and one more run after that; he went for three total runs). I am not to speak of such events. He ran all by his lonesome in our apartment gym. And I am still gleaming a full week plus later. I am almost confident this was a three-time thing, though I will remain forever hopeful he will someday enjoy running alongside me (on the easy days).
  • The office bathroom is never empty. I am continually peeved by this. This girl appreciates her privacy.
  • I checked out I am Malala: The Girl Who Stood Up for Education and Was Shot by the Taliban by Malala Yousafzai from the library four times to finish it. The entire book is 317 pages. I could not get into the book, until the final third. The message is fabulous. I am inspired by the young activist. I am devastated for the lives of so many of the people of Pakistan, specifically the women and children. I am in awe of the courage of Malala's father, standing out "against" his own people for education. I wanted to praise the book, but found it riddled with far too much history, history complex beyond my own understanding. This unfortunately translated to choppy reading. The story did, however, make me think and challenged me to remember these issues do touch my life—not to mention my heart.
 You can all sleep peacefully at once.

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

March Goal: A Review

I completed my March goal; I finished the five books I set out to read. My current position provides me a glorious, hour-long break for lunch. And because I do not have (or want) coworker friends, I spend my lunch time reading in the huge atrium at the National Portrait Gallery, a location that makes my little heart happy on the coldest of winter days; Barnes & Noble; or on a random bench on the rare warm-enough days. I also recently discovered a quaint court house–optimal for dining–inside my work-local Panera. And last, there is a neat zen garden across the street from my office. The downside to this otherwise neat spot is the the lingering smells of cigarette smoke, which is a scent that doesn't exactly scream "hang out here for lunch." And sadly this is an area where smokers congregate, despite the plethora of signs citing this area is NOT for puffing.

So when I am not walking around scouting new spots for dining and linger, I’m reading.

And these were my five picks for March:
  1. A House in the Sky by Amanda Lindhout and Sara Corbett – This was by far the best book I read this month. It’s a memoir, of course, detailing Lindhout’s time in captivity in Somalia.
  2. Tuesday’s With Morrie by Mitch Albom – My parents have encouraged me to read this for oh about the last nine years, around the time I began reading for pleasure, no longer feeling it was a miserable chore. After forcing my way through Albom’s Five Years in Heaven during my freshman year of college, I had no desire to pick up this book. Well, I finally did. And happily so. I would not give this book glowing reviews but it is short enough to enjoy; it felt like a meaningful, long blog post. The words were wise. And the story of time Albom spent with his dying college professor, Morrie Schwartz, made me want to live a kinder, slower life.
  3. Divergent by Veronica Roth – I had high hopes for this book after the rumored comparisons to Hunger Games. This book was a total disappointment. I am not sure why I finished reading. I am not even sure I will see the movie.  
  4. Slim for Life: My Insider Secrets to Simple, Fast, and Lasting Weight Loss by Jillian Michaels – I was sorely disappointed. There were very few new tips. And the “secrets” were repetitive, really repetitive.
  5. The Antelope in the Living Room: The Real Story of Two People Sharing One Life by Melanie Shankle – I have followed Shankle at The Big Mama Blog for almost two years now. This is her second book. And while this book is much like her first – Sparkly Green Earring – in that it’s essentially a series of blog posts strung together in a book, I found the content worth reading. It’s easy and light and happy; I laughed often (and nearly cried once or twice). Her tales made me appreciate companionship and the challenge it can sometimes be to share your life with someone else. 
In addition to my lunch hour, I was also aided by winter. Until yesterday afternoon, it was still very much winter in the mid-Atlantic. So I read and weep and hoped for Spring. (It just might be here!)

And finally, I have yet to indulged in a day of solitude nor have I really started learning the Arabic alphabet--my personal and spiritual goals for the year. I have allotted time for these activities in April; it seems adding this to the calendar might in fact be the only way I am successful.

April is upon us, may it be sunny.

Monday, March 3, 2014

February Goal: A Review

I'm back again with an update on my 2014 Personal Goals. My goal in February was to follow a strict vegan diet. And, for several reasons, I failed this before even starting. I am on a strict budget therefore I was not about to throw out half the food in the refrigerator only to replace these items with vegan counterparts. Another was, I'm lazy. There is a lot more work that goes into living a vegan lifestyle; my normal dinner 'go to' options are not often vegan. I did make an effort to prepare several vegan dinners I originally pulled recipes for and planned once the cabinets were cleared. And most of these were successes. Overall though, I was about 20% vegan. Big fail.

Because straight-up giving up is lame, I opted to ditch coffee in lieu of living vegan. And it was hard. In the beginning. On a normal week, I "allow" myself two cups of coffee. I'm on the fence about the amount of caffeine one should consume and somewhere along the way decided two cups per week was the right amount for a person of my stature. Even more limiting, I drink these cups on Monday and Friday, figuring those are the toughest days for me to battle. The twice weekly coffee boost has worked for me. If I ever need more caffeine, I opt for green tea.

This month has naturally been all about the green tea. And it was during this month I realized just how little I delight in green tea. I do not mind this option on occasion but I will never be a full convert. (That was not my goal, just a simple statement of fact.) I tried it hot, I tried it cold. I tried three different brands (this month)--Adagio, Bigelow Tea, and Mighty Leaf. But I persevered. And I was 98% successful. My one indulgence being three ounces on a gorgeous Saturday while visiting home. I resisted on Friday and Sunday. But Saturday, with the weather being oddly nice, my productivity was at full speed. And coffee--my dad's coffee--was too much to resist.

Further, regarding failing in February, I still have not indulged in a day of solitude nor have I really started learning the Arabic alphabet--my personal and spiritual goals for the year.

There was enough going on in February to keep the calendar full--a second 'brew' experience; my first Washington Capital's game; a Super Bowl party; a brunch with friends; a date at Baked & Wired following by a viewing of Peter and the Starcatcher at the Kennedy Center; a field trip to the National Portrait Gallery; catching the Oscar nominated Documentary Shorts at West End Cinema; discovering Nutella hot chocolate during the second (of three) snow day(s) for 2014 (as of March 3); and a weekend with to my parents' home in Northern Virginia. And while each and every one of these events was enjoyable, I was happy to flip the calendar to March and put this particularly cold and difficult month in the past; my self-diagnosed Seasonal Affective Disorder was a beast throughout February.

Last, the upside of the frigid weather is I continued to read book after book; I am unable to put down my current read--A House in the Sky by Amanda Lindhout. This month I finished three more books, placing me at 20% of my reading goal for the year. Better yet, up next: My March goal is to read five books. So weather pending, I should be fairly successful.

Tuesday, December 31, 2013

2013 Book List

This was a 'bad book' year, I would recommend all of seven books on this list—bolded below:
  • Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn
  • Drop Dead Healthy: One Man's Humble Quest for Bodily Perfection by A. J. Jacobs
  • Sparkly Green Earrings: Catching the Light at Every Turn by Melanie Shankle
  • The Fault In Our Stars by John Green
  • Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail by Cheryl Strayed
  • Push by Sapphire
  • The Kid by Sapphire
  • The Storyteller by Jodi Picoult
  • Inferno by Dan Brown
  • Factory Girls: From Village to City in a Changing China by Leslie T. Chang
  • The Boy in the Striped Pajamas by John Boyne
  • Growing Pains by Billie Piper
  • Defining the Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter--And How to Make the Most of Them Now by Meg Jay
  • Let's Explore Diabetes with Owls by David Sedaris
  • Love the One You're With by Emily Griffin
  • Siddhartha by Herman Hesse
  • Lincoln Lawyer by Michael Connelly
  • Tell the Wolves I'm Home by Carol Rifka Brunt
  • Where'd You Go, Bernadette by Maria Semple
  • Skipping Christmas by John Grisham 
  • Christmas Bliss by Mary Kay Andrews
  • Housekeeping by Marilynne Robinson
  • The Friday Night Knitting Club by Kate Jacobs
  • Calling Invisible Women by Jeanne Ray

Monday, December 9, 2013

Dinner. Dinner. KU Basketball. Dinner. KC Chiefs.

Thursday started off with a trip to the grocery, list in hand; I was hosting A.J.S. for dinner. And ended with grilled sesame tofu, lemony creamed Brussels sprouts, and steamed asparagus. Pretty tasty. Though... not nearly as tasty, not even close to the dinner the man in A.J.S.'s life, S.A.G., hosted Boyfriend and me for on Friday. We started with Brussel sprouts afelia, replicating those of chef Jose Andres. The dish was spot on, delicious. Beyond. The progressive dinner continued with collard greens, acorn squash soup, and grilled cheese. And in between each plate, we cleared our palates with the homemade brownies I whipped up. From the minute we walked in the door, Christmas music was playing. The music continued through the post-dinner tree decorating. There was wine and beer and Christmas cheer abounds. And later, a few new friends joined us for my soon-to-be-famous holiday cocktails. I think I fell into a food comma around this point. I surely made a fine impression on our new friends.

Saturday I slept until 11:00 am. I do not kid. I cannot remember the last time I did that. I made pumpkin pancakes for breakfast... or lunch. And then Boyfriend and I left for The Laughing Man Tarvern--a local University of Kansas bar--to watch the Jayhawks take on the Colorado Buffalos, Boyfriend's Alma Mater. We met our favorite Kansas friends there. I only invited Boyfriend because this was a for sure win for the Hawks. Except the Buffs dominated the entire second half. Even when KU tied it up with three seconds to go, the Buffs were able to get off a game-winning, buzzer-beating three-point shot. Boyfriend proceeded to make a fool of himself with the one other CU fan present, while the rest of the bar went dead silent--stunned. Bill Self had not lost to CU in his 11-year tenure at KU prior to this gloomy, sad afternoon.

I was nonfunctional proceed this loss--the second one of the season, which is probably how we ended up on a bus going the wrong direction in route to S.N.L.'s for a Lesotho potluck dinner. We eventually got there, thanks to the friendliest WMATA bus driver. While we were driving all sorts of wrong ways, I put my fate in Bus Driver and buried myself in Where's You Go Bernadette?--my current read. We eventually made it to S.N.L's new adobe. And I was immediately jealous of his brick-walled kitchen and all the contents being brewed within.

Together, all five of us Returned Peace Corps Volunteers (from Lesotho) went all out, but A.A.P.'s chakalaka, a vegetable relish, took the win for best dish. He was smart enough to beg for a local recipe before hopping continents. To "compliment" the chakalaka, there was pork smothered in local spices; papa, ground maize meal and water cooked to a Pay-Doh texture; samp, hominy loaded with butter; moroho, mustard greens cooked to death in oil and salt; and Eat Sum More biscuits, shortbread cookies. The dinner was MSG-loaded; we did Lesotho proud. As I have mentioned once or twice before, Lesotho is heavily influenced by South Africa... and with Nelson Mandela's death on Thursday, the timing of this feast was appropriate. After a few wild games from the Peace Corps days, Boyfriend and I headed home. Only we didn't go to bed because Michigan State was beating Ohio State... and with the earlier loss... I needed to go to bed on a positive note. Go State Go!

Then, yesterday, the most anticipated day of this season--Kansas City Chiefs at Washington Redskins game day. This day started early with layering up for the outside sub-arctic, snowy weather. I could hardly contain my excitement--December 8 was finally here and we had free(!!!) club-level seats. Boyfriend and I caught the metro to Morgan Boulevard where we met A.A.P., a devout football fan, and H.M.O., my childhood, Chiefs-adoring friend for tailgating with more fans. The designated tailgate spot happened to be forever away from the metro, but our brisk walk was probably good for our already freezing selves. At the tailgate, we celebrated and cheered and amped up... until we were frozen. Then a magic fairy appeared with a fire. At this point my fingers burned the most painful burn as I tried to thaw them over open flames. There was an abundance of tailgate no one consumed because that meant risking further frostbite and crunching on icy cold food. It was not such a pretty thing.
We arrived at our seats just before kick-off... and as mentioned... they were club-level... which meant I was perpetually tempted by the warmth of the indoors. I had to remind myself on more than one occasion that I was there to watch the game live, despite pounding ice pellets. Though we prepared for the "ice pellet" condition, we did not actually expect ice pellets/sleet/snow because forecasters are never right. Except I guess when I have outdoor plans in December. And if I haven't made my point about the freezing cold yet, let me share this tragedy: I paid $13.00 for a Bailey's infused hot chocolate. That has a whole lot of desperation written all over it. The Chiefs pummeled the Redskins, in a game that will ultimately cost Mike Shanahan his job. So I think even the Redskins were happy about the loss!
After the game, H.M.O. and I ran to the metro in the icy conditions--she fell twice, once for both of us--as A.A.P. and J.P.B. tried to keep up! I wish I could express how warm the train felt. I didn't even care that people were breathing down my back. We survived, though it was close to midnight before I felt warm again.  

And that was my weekend. Hope yours was good, too.

Monday, December 31, 2012

2012 Book List

This was another slow year for reading...
  • Twilight by Stephenie Meyer
  • The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo by Stieg Larsson
  • The Girl Who Played with Fire by Stieg Larsson
  • The Girl Who Kicked the Hornet's Nest by Stieg Larsson
  • Into Thin Air by Jon Krakauer
  • The Art of Racing in the Rain by Garth Stein
  • Strength in What Remains by Tracy Kidder
  • The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Mary Ann Shaffer and Annie Barrows
  • Zeitoun by Dave Eggers
  • Fifty Shades of Grey by E. L. James
  • Winter Garden by Kristin Hannah
  • Bunch of Amateurs by Jack Hitt
  • Seriously... I'm Kidding by Ellen DeGeneres
I will leave with you a quote from The Art of Racing in the Rain that still resonates with me, months after finishing the book: "To live every day as if it had been stolen from death, that is how I would like to live. To feel the joy of life...To separate oneself from the burden, the angst, the anguish that we all encounter everyday. To say I am alive, I am wonderful, I am. I am. That is something I aspire to." (Garth Stein)

Friday, December 28, 2012

Remembering December, Week 4

December 22 -
  • I did not get out of bed until 1:00 pm. I justified my laziness with the face I was nursing a cold. 
 December 23 -
  • I baked seven dozen cookies.
  • I watched a lot of football. 
  • I patiently waited as my brother, C.D.H., made his way from his Atlanta home to the family home in Northern Virginia. 
 December 24 -
  • I worked from home and had a Yankee Candle Holiday Trio candle burning all day. If you have to work on Christmas Eve, you find joy in simple things.
  • Snowflakes fell most of the afternoon. No real accumulation, but it was pretty as it fell.
  • Does it make everyone as sad and/or disappointed to witness all the garbage--kites, balloons, plastic bags--in the winter trees as it does me? This fleeting thought crossed my mind as I walked around with neighborhood with my parent's "puppies," Louis and Toby.
  • We had our traditional fondue dinner, which was quiet this year with just our family of five. 
  • The yearly unveiling of Christmas pajamas was done before 9:00 pm, leaving me with plenty of time to wrap my head in a new book--Bunch of Amateurs by Jack Hitt--before bedtime.
Christmas Day -
  • The snow stuck around throughout the evening, making for my first white Christmas in a long time.
  • After a 'better-than-Thanksgiving' dinner of broccoli, mashed potatoes, mushrooms, a hand-plated citrus, fried goat cheese, and pomegranate salad, rolls... and some sort of roasted meat for those so inclined, the poppers were popped to reveal cheesy jokes, crowns, and a prize.   

December 26 -
  • I worked, again. Cruel world. 
  • It snowed again. Awesome world.
  • Our family of five ventured to Georgetown, D.C. in the snow/wintery mix/rain for at Mexican tapas at Mike Isabella's Bandolero. For those of you who, like me, do not idolize chefs and therefore have never heard the name Mike Isabella, he is a former Top Chef contestant. He might of won. Or maybe he just cooked a lot of food and was critiqued. Maybe he had this heavenly restaurant before. And maybe he did not. Bottom line: stop in at Bandolero for drinks, appetizers, dinner, and/or dessert--you will not regret it.  
  • After this blue haired dinner, we went to the Kennedy Center for a showing of Million Dollar Quartet. The tickets were a surprise for the master musician in the family, but the show was enjoyed by all. 
December 27 -
  • After getting home late the previous night, and with that full holiday weekend of family bonding time before me, waking up at 4:00 am, driving an hour to Baltimore, and hopping on a 6:00 am flight to Orlando, FL was really fun. Like so much fun. 
  • I made it to Orlando amongst a trillion overly-excited Walt Disney World bound children, waited an hour for Bridesmaid No. 3, rented a car, and drove an hour to Howey-in-the-Hills, FL for the Royal Wedding... where my life was planned for the next 36 hours. 
  • So the first 12 hours was lunch, followed by professional finger and toe nail painting, a hair washing session, a group bus ride to The Catholic Community of St. Paul church were the rehearsing (and later wedding) took place, dinner at the Angler's Club in The Villages, and a bus ride back to Mission Inn Resort where the out of town guest were welcomed with an official party. Then I found some time, albeit only a few hours, before...

December 28 -
  • I got to wake-up for ROYAL WEDDING DAY(!!!). After I clothed myself, viola! my personal escort was outside my door, waiting to drive me to the S family ranch in Leesburg, FL.
  • From morning to early afternoon, a make-up artist and two hair stylists transformed regular girls into glamour queens. I was unidentifiable. The things I endure for my favoritist friends. 
  • There was brunch. And snacks. Do you know what a challenge eating becomes when your hair is being ripped out of your head by curlers and you face is layered in plaster?
  • Picture Time. I sold this to myself as enjoying Florida sunshine time. 
  • Once we were officially documented as the bridal party, we jumped onto the party bus and headed church for the exchanging of vows. 
  • And, of course, the best part of every wedding is celebrating the happy couple... and we did that in grand style with dinner, cake, an open bar, and a live band. Congrats to Mr. and Mrs. M!
The week was another full one. And here I am on January 13, 2013 catching up on all that is and was. The deeper message from this week is I appreciate my life. I have a job I am thriving in. I had time surrounded with my immediate family. There were Christmas and wedding festivities. And time with a precious friend of nearly eight years before she said, "I do." And even though Florida is my least favorite state, there was travel during this week and the ability to escape the ruts of my daily life. 

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Say Something #7

I picked up a new book tonight, Let's Pretend This Never Happened: A Mostly True Memoir by Jenny Lawson. I am excited; I hope this sparks the reader in me back to life a bit.

Monday, April 16, 2012

The Requested Update

I am confident you have not missed my musings nearly as much as I have missed writing. Life has been a whirlwind of mostly good events lately. This is an update on the day-to-day. I cannot promise it will be interesting… but this is what is going on.

The days start early, 5:00 am early, with a workout. I have my eyes set on a June half-marathon. My training is in the midst of finding its rhythm. I used to have time for lifting and running and now it seems I must chose. Poor me!  I refuse to let up on breakfast, so I then take the time to sit and eat a hearty breakfast. The vegan diet is being repeatedly slammed as oatmeal (with milk) and greek yogurt are the current go-to.

Now that I am fully awake, I shower before making way to my office cube along the clogged roads of D.C. suburbia. I often pause to appreciate a cool bird or the risen sun—these bits of nature might be the extent of what I see that day. In my cube I perform standard work-y tasks until I am released of duties for the day. When I am busy, I love it. When I have nothing to do, I absolutely hate it. As I travel home I dream of the endless dinner combinations I might appease my appetite with that night. I usually settle for the quickest combination… unless I prep my mom in advance with a dinner request. Tonight is a new favorite eggplant dish from Mark Bittman; I am already salivating. Stomach satisfied, my brain and body toggle back-and-forth (over the entertainment list) until one wins out. My body wants to sit and rest, but my brain will not allow it—that seems ridiculous after sitting for eight hours. Plus, I am not much for television, since Dance Moms, like the best show ever, has ended for the season. And activities like walking Louis, which used to be enjoyable, now seem more like chores. I usually end up doing dishes, packing lunch for the next day, and prepping my clothes. I am super fun these days, you see?

To really spice life up, I pass the time with BBC Africa, This American Life, or NPR: Fresh Air podcasts, day dream about my next vacation, perform yoga in heat intensified atmospheres, or hurriedly squeezing in a phone call. At 8:00 pm I am ready to crash… but I resist the urge to climb into bed until the clock strikes nine, when I am joyously hop in bed—knowing the day has ceased—with my book. Right now, Star Island by Carl Hiaasen is the book of choice. This book will be finished by Wednesday because Seriously… I’m Kidding by Ellen DeGeneres is in the mail(!!!). There is even more to be excited about here because A. J. Jacobs just released his newest book, Drop Dead Healthy. Once I convince Pops he needs this book to complete ourcollection, it too will be in the mail.

The weekends are over before I remember they started. I spend my time walking around the nature preserve near my house (where I am sure to pick up Lyme disease), running errands, having (or sleeping through) movie nights with neighbors, taking Louis to the dog park, making extensive Sunday breakfasts while sipping chai tea lattes, kickboxing at the local gym, lunching with Returned Peace Corps Volunteers, anticipating out of town visitors, and working on my newest project—refinishing a table. I have a true appreciation for the weekends now that they span only 48 hours. There you have it, life is good.

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Beautifully Rotten Food

I intended to spend a significant amount more time writing following my trip to Central America. Then life sort of swept me up in a tornado of March madness. Or maybe it is because of this trip to Central America I got distracted?

In the goings of the past month plus, I have had a couple of afternoons on the deck reading, engrossed in my flavor of the week. I could and would like to write a book review, or nine, however, I will save that for when my writing is thriving. When my head in not stuck in a book, I resort to my inbox filled with articles on wedding ideas to the mountain lions of Northern California to Spring Training (Notice I transitioned smoothly into baseball instead of addressing the demise of the Kansas Jayhawks to the Kentucky Wildcats of all teams.) to world aid for reading... never knowing what to expect. Tonight, I want to share a really great piece titled "Beautifully Rotten Food" recommended by a friend, an avid reader of The Huffington Post's Food Section. This article sheds light on food waste in a unique manner--Austrian artist Klaus Pichler uses still life photography to capture food far past the expiration date.  

And since I have exhausted myself encouraging others to buy local, buy quantities you can eat, clean your plate at meals, and never leave those leftovers untouched... these images "accompanied by statistics regarding the food's origin, time of harvest, means of transportation, distance traveled and its carbon footprint" might be all the motivation you need to help reduce food waste. If you are not too squeamish, I highly recommend checking this out.

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Manuel Antonio, Costa Rica

The Dates: January 17-25, 2012

The Place: So the story claims Manuel Antonio put Costa Rica on the map. It began in the early 1990s when an ecotourism wave hit Manuel Antonio, the 'eco-boom' came as quickly as it went, spiraling Costa Rica irreversibly forward into a tourism (sans eco) hotspot. Thou shall not be too critical of dear old Costa Rica, once the leader of deforestation in Central America... these billion visitors have halted the slashing of our much needed, much depleted oxygen emitters. Martha Honey, author of the 2008 publication Ecotourism and Sustainable Development, alleges deforestation has been reduced by 98% since the boom. Go statistics(!!!). What this boils down to is if you bought property along the winding road that swings inland and out to an overview of the expansive Pacific Ocean around my time of birth and you have half a brain, you are doing quite well... if success is judged by financial state. And if you are me, a close replica or a wannabe, you can--for twice the rate of the rest of Costa Rica's dreamy locations--visit Manuel Antonio and continuing marking success by the number of smiles you share along the way.

Lonely Planet paints a picture of the "serpentine route that passes over a number of hills awash with picturesque views of forested slopes leading down to the palm fringed coastline" too few pass up. On a minimalist budget there will plenty of opportunities to stroll this route on foot. I would be remiss not to admit the beaches, particularly those harvested inside Manuel Antonio National Park, are stunning. Manuel Antonio, in short, is for those not concerned with high prices, interested in 'worldly' people watching and guarding your belongings with the life of your travel-mate while you splash in the water, and being pestered with the sales of authentic trinkets and snacks (Takers for condensed milk on ice?). Pretty enough for a pause, definitely not my favorite place.

The Lodging: We stayed on the secured property in "Uncle" J's guesthouse. Everything Manuel Antonio lacked in appeal was made up for by our home for the week. Here is a taste of our treatment: windows floor-to-ceiling providing natural light and gorgeous views, a shared king size bed, room to unpack and spread out--sprawled on sofas for napping, rocking chairs for reading, a large wooden table for journaling, a shower with cold and hot settings, a maid(!!!) including laundry service, and a private kitchen. The pictures will tell the rest of the story:
The Book I Finished: The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo by Stieg Larsson

The Activity: The time in Manuel Antonio was spent as I imagine others 'do vacation.' Slow mornings, capped off with late breakfast meals at Costa Linda became the routine. This (amazing) restaurant sits outside Manuel Antonio National Park and packs a killer deal--a first plate loaded with fruit and a pancake, followed by a second plate of gallo pinto con huevos and bread. Plate one is feature below; I was much to anxious to capture plate two, on each of our ten visits. The coffee is piping hot (and unlimited) and the seating is outdoors. The price tag: 1800 Colones (approximately $3.60). I cannot express the number of time I (over) dined at Costa Linda.
There were a couple day excursions--a guided trip through Manuel Antonio National Park,
(Two-Toed Sloth)
a morning swim out-and-back to the settled ocean boulders,
and repelling waterfalls at Los Campesinos.
We squeezed in a run or two in between our beach laziness. Sometimes we even got off our towels to boogie-board in the ocean or partake in a game of bocce ball. On occasion we braked from the sun under a rented umbrella on lounge chairs. The finale of each beach day was the sunset, every one more impressive than the previous.
Mostly we wined and dined our time away. Whether the cooking took place in or out, the speed was always vacation pace... and late. This might have been the reason I experienced my only minor bout of stomach troubles here in Manuel Antonio, luckily I had agua pipa (coconut water) chopped right from the tree to hydrate me back to health. No big deal.

This was Manuel Antonio.