Thursday, December 31, 2015

2015 Reading List

Did I hit my goal of 40 books read for the year? No, no I did not.
  • Generation Kill by Evan Wright
  • Gold Boy, Emerald Girl: Stories by Yiyun Li
  • Three Junes by Julia Glass
  • Yes Please by Amy Poehler
  • Unbroken: A World War II Story of  Survival, Resilience, and Redemption by Laura Hillenbrand
  • Look Again by Lisa Scottoline
  • Kisses from Katie: A Story of Relentless Love and Redemption by Katie J. Davis 
  • An Invisible Thread: The True Story of an 11-Year-Old Panhandler, a Busy Sales Executive, and an Unlikely Meeting with Destiny by Alex Tresniowski and Laura Schroff
  • The Weight of Silence India by Heather Gudenkauf
  • Dead Aid: Why Aid Is Not Working and How There Is a Better Way for Africa by Dambisa Moyo
  • Hard Choices by Hillary Rodham Clinton
  • Jam on the Vine by LaShonda Katrice Barnett 
  • Blame by Michelle Huneven
  • The Girl on the Train by Paula Hawkins
  • The End of Overeating: Taking Control of the Insatiable American Appetite by David A. Kessler
  • It's What I Do: A Photographer's Life of Love and War by Lynsey Addario
  • When Helping Hurts: How to Alleviate Poverty Without Hurting the Poor... and Yourself  by Steve Corbett
  • Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout
  • However Long the Night: Molly Melching's Journey to Help Millions of African Women and Girls Triumph by Aimee Molloy
  • Eye on the Struggle: Ethel Payne, the First Lady of the Black Press by James McGrath Morris 
  • Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic by Alison Bechdel
  • Cutting for Stone by Abraham Verghese
  • Modern Romance by Aziz Ansari
  • Rising Strong by Brene Brown
  • Fast Girl: A Life Spent Running from Madness by Suzy Favor Hamilton
  • Bebe Day by Day: 100 Keys to French Parenting by Pamela Druckerman
  • Dime by E. R. Frank
  • The Art of Fielding by Chad Harbach
  • The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed by Jessica Lahey
  • Where the Red Fern Grows by Wilson Rawls
  • All the Bright Places by Jennifer Niven
"At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us." Dr. Albert Schweizer (The Gift of Failure)

Monday, December 28, 2015

A Colorado Christmas

If one can have a spirit state, mine is Colorado. Husband and I spent this Christmas in Boulder with his family. And if anything can distract me from missing my family and traditions, it's nature and good food, both of which exceeded my expectations on this trip.
With an extended vacation on the horizon, I have no time off work. On Christmas Eve, I was up and working at 6:30 am (after arriving late on Wednesday) at Boxcar Coffee Roasters to stay on par with Eastern Time. As a morning person, I much enjoyed these hours. Plus, it provided an excuse to try a couple Boulder coffee shops—something I relish when traveling. (And an excuse to pass on running, though I brought my gear, the weather was frigid.) I should also mention caffeine is a mandatory additive when you travel at my pace. (We later sampled coffee at The Cup Espresso Cafe and Oxo Coffee Co.) Alas, all the coffee and hard work on this particular morning called for a breakfast at The Buff, where dollar Bloody Mary’s were on the menu. Yes, please! The food was quite yummy. Though as I proceeded to eat my way through Boulder, nothing disappointed me. There was my favorite salad at Christmas Eve, made by my mother in law. There was eggs benedict for Christmas breakfast, Yorkshire pudding for dinner. A diner breakfast at The Village, where the slogan captured my heart: "890 sq. ft. of reality surrounded by Boulder." The dinner at Jax stole the show. Oh my goodness, heaven on plate after plate—a true food experience. The next morning we whipped up a mighty fine pre-outdoors breakfast with Christmas leftovers. And what does hunger call for at the end of a long day? Margaritas at Rio Grande Mexican Restaurant! On our last day, when I should not have been able to fit in my clothes, we squeezed in one more scrumptious lunch at Fate Brewing Company. That meal was nearly eight hours ago as I pound away on my keyboard on the flight home and I’m still not even mildly hungry. True overindulgence. I had no idea Boulder had so many delights waiting for me. Every time I thought I had experienced a Rocky Mountain high, something better touched my palate.
While we were there, the temperatures did not rise above 25 degrees, which was quite the contrast from the way Washington, DC has been. The bitter cold definitely brightened the holiday spirit! And in a town like Boulder, no one is slowed by the chill. We were out for long walks—along Boulder Creek and through University of Colorado’s campus. We hiked Wonderland Lake Trail, Buckingham Park, and Chautauqua Park. We saw the sights along Gross Reservoir. And we snowshoed in Rocky Mountain National Park, an obvious vacation highlight!
All the eating. And all the nature. 

Tuesday, December 22, 2015

Holiday Traditions

I admittedly am overwhelmed by the holiday season. I probably always have been to some degree; I remember being called Grinch at a young age. As I have grown up, I understand myself much better. I can feel the stress coming. With practice, I have become better at managing my anxiety during this time of year. I’m nowhere close to perfect or even where I’d like to be but progress has been made, I think.

Growing up, my parents set the traditions, some of which I still enjoy to this day. With less time and flexibility during the holidays, I have a lot more control over my fate. Though dating and recently marriage have added a level of complexity to holidays—blending traditions, new traditions, and holiday travel. (My family traveled once over Christmas during my junior year of high school and swore off holiday travel for all eternity imm.)

For the past several years, some traditions have emerged. I’m here to document for prosperity.
The Sunday after Thanksgiving, Husband and went to Lowelands Farms to pick out our Christmas tree. This was our third (and perhaps final year for some time) visiting this farm. The owners are very kind. The honey is divine. The location is optimal. The farm is large enough to select from a couple Charlie Brown trees amongst the true beauties, though the selection has dwindled considerably in size over the past several years.
We visited the National Zoo to see the Zoo Lights in mid-December. With the exception of one exceptionally busy December, this has been a tradition of mine since December 2010. This year has been unseasonably warm, which made walking the zoo very enjoyable! The fact that we didn’t have our hot chocolate in hand was only mildly disappointing. We had thousands of children to navigate, thanks to the genius idea of going on the nicest Saturday of December.
This year, for the first time, we attended my company’s holiday party. The party was incredible. We felt like A-listers. My previous company did not have a holiday party, and we’ve had competing priorities with Husband’s party both years he has been with his company. We won’t be upset if attending company parties becomes a tradition from here on out.
We dined at Little Serow for annual fancy Christmas dinner. (In previous years, we dined at Le Diplomate and Rasika. For the record, we think Le Diplomate is our favorite yet.) The Northern Thai food was delicious and the time together was nice as always. I was able to leave work at a reasonable hour so we could queue up for the first seating, allowing us time to soak up the continuation of pleasant weather as we visited the National Tree and the Capital Tree post-feast.
This year, in additional to the holiday party bonus, we saw Matilda the Musical at the Kennedy Center. This night was an absolute highlight for me. I anticipated this night since the last time I saw Matilda, no lie.
And what's Christmas without thousands of cookies? We hosted the our second annual sugar cookie decorating party with our new neighbors. There are few things better than celebrating the season with friendship, cocktails, frozen pizza, and holiday movies and music. There was of course the products of our artistic sides to further sate our tummies.  
We then jetted off to Boulder, Colorado to spend Christmas with Husband’s family. And afterwards, we’ll do Christmas at New Years with my family!